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Despising children

Jesus said in Matthew 18:10, “Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven.”

Step-parents replace parents when divorce and remarriage occurs. Instead of the children of the first family being the natural heirs within the family, we have a grown-up that moves into that position as heir should the child’s natural parent die. This is the perfect system for the children and descendants of the lost children of the house of Israel. In this amazing system most resources and property are diverted to the second family.  Unfortunately, it is the worst system for the children of the first family. Can you imagine having adults competing with little children for something that is not theirs to take? That is exactly what happens with family law around the world! A second spouse and their children should never ever be permitted to be primary heirs ever. These laws put these little children in a horrible position. It is grown-ups that can “legally” take everything that is theirs! These little children are despised by their competitive step-parents. Save the first family!

Adultery and Autism

Based upon what Jesus said, the members of the first family are very important. When he said “let no man separate” that is exactly what he meant. In Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob’s families all of the children knew their father and were able to spend time with him. Only in cultures where divorce and remarriage occur do children grow up without at least one parent and sometimes two. This is very pleasing to the second spouse because they move from a secondary position into a primary position. In that false primary position many will try to replace the missing parent. Unfortunately that is an impossible and unnatural task. Our children need to know their father and their mother in order to know themselves. I have heard women talk about how they have noticed something missing in sons that grew up without their fathers. This is a very unfortunate situation when a parent abandons their own flesh and blood for another woman or another man.

In adulterous unions, where a man has abandoned his first wife and moved in with a second wife and has children with her, the second wife will want her children to be first even if it means eliminating a man’s children from his first family from their own father. Firstborn children of the first family are natural leaders – they are first and they naturally know it. When adultery is involved, our firstborn children of the first family are pushed aside to make room for the children of the second family. Our sons especially, never get to fill the role that God intended for them. They are replaced by the children of the second spouse. Instead of being active contributors, participants, and members within the family, they are forced to step aside to make room for the children of the second family. Quite often what these children speak is never really heard. In other words, their opinions don’t matter. Hence, the natural is replaced by the unnatural and it affects our sons and daughters alike. In situations like this, this “something” that is missing begins to be genetically transferred to the next generation. When this happens, we begin to see manifestations like autism, etc. These children have difficulty making eye contact and connecting with others. Just remember that their father or mother in many cases was ignored and their opinions did not matter. Our first families are very important. Do not let any other person separate the first family because it can have lasting effects on the future generations of the first family. Save the first family!

 

The Next Generation

In today’s time, we spend very little time thinking about the next generation. But it is the next generation that will have to live with the decisions that we have made in our lifetime. Many of our children die for us through abortion and even birth control so that we can have the “perfect” family when we are ready. Even children living in a household with an unrelated stranger that is sleeping in their parents bed have to deal with adult decisions that do not include them. Children in this setting are very likely to be emotionally abused, physically abused, and sometimes even killed. Children, like animals, have no voice. Some even think that they do not feel pain. It is time for us to STOP and slow down and think about how our decisions are affecting our family and our children! Save the first family!

Jesus said in Matthew 18:6-7, “But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh!”

How important is the first family?

I believe, based upon the following scriptures, that our salvation depends upon us keeping the first family intact and not giving unrelated strangers the opportunity to move into the family home.

Jesus said in Matthew 19:9-12, “”And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.” His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, “All men cannot receive this saying, save them to who it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.””

Our first family is so important that Jesus suggested castration. Our child sex offenders and rapists do not need to live a life in prison because castration is an option. But I must say that I do not believe that our sons would do these these things if adultery had not affected their childhood and their lives. Also, our priests, should consider castration as an option since they choose not to marry. The men that choose to make themselves eunuchs are the ones that know that they cannot keep their family together unless they do become castrated. They choose heaven over another woman. This is what I believe that Jesus was saying. What do you think that Jesus was trying to tell his disciples?

Seed

Men have long been thought to be the only ones that have “seed”. But that is not true -men and women both have “seed”. Just as men are sometimes leaders (providers and protectors) of the family, women can fulfill that roll too. For instance, when a man abandons his wife and children for another woman, the mother must move into the leadership roll. But, in the case of second wives that desire to break up the family unit for their benefit and their children’s benefit, these women can be the leader for their own family branch. Hagar is a example of just such a woman. In Genesis 16:9-11, the angel of the Lord is talking to Hagar and Hagar alone, “Return to thy mistress, and submit thyself under her hands. And the angel of the Lord said unto her, I will multiply thy seed exceedingly, that it shall not be numbered for multitude. And the angel of the Lord said unto her, Behold, thou art with child, and shalt bear a son, and shalt call his name Ishmael; because the Lord hath heard thy affliction.” It was later, when Ishmael was thirteen years old that Abraham and Sarah, sent both of them away from the main family unit. Genesis 21:12-14, “And God said unto Abraham, Let it not be grievous in thy sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman,; in all that Sarah hath said unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in Isaac shall thy seed be called. And also of the son of the bondwoman will I make a nation, because he is thy seed. And Abraham rose up early in the morning, and took bread, and a bottle of water, and gave it unto Hagar, putting it on her shoulder, and the child, and sent her away, and she departed, and wandered in the wilderness of Beersheba.”