When a man divorces his first wife and then moves in with and marries his second wife, this other woman becomes his legal heir. And so, with our family laws, the legal heirs take priority over the natural heirs within the family unit. The only way to correct this problem is to keep the second wife secondary and never move in with or marry her. In this way, what she contributes to the family goes to the whole family and not just to her children. Our children are our natural heirs, but the children of the first family must come first!