Author: barbaramcox

I am the author of The Step-Father’s Step-Son. The book is available through Family Matters Publishing at www.stepfathersstepson.com and Amazon.com. The book covers subjects such as: adultery, family, relationships, and parenting. The book is written primarily for the first family and the children of the parents of the first family.

Covetousness and inheritance…

All of a parent’s children are their heirs, but their children from their first family are their primary heirs. In many cases, adultery creates situations where the children of the first family are completely eliminated as heirs. Lawyers will tell you that it is determined by the person with whom the parent currently lives. A second spouse will want to be first, especially if they were successful in persuading the parent to move in with and live with them. Many will demand that the children of the first family be completely eliminated in order to make room for the children of the second family.

Children of the second family must understand that their salvation is not in the abundance of things and that covetousness will not get them to heaven. Children of the first family, do not hire a lawyer to fight them. Just remember that the second family is focused on things that have little to do with their salvation. The first family is very important to God!

And one in his company said unto Jesus, “Master, speak to my brother, that he divide the inheritance with me.” And he said unto him, “Man, who made me a judge or a divider over you?” And he said unto them, “Take heed, and beware of covetousness for a man’s life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesses.”(Luke 12:13-15)

Are you a gatherer or a scatterer?

“He that is not with me is against me: and he that gathereth not with me scattereth.” (Luke 11:23)

Adultery splits a family and scatters the members of the family. Adultery affects every member of a family, but in different ways. It is especially damaging to all of the members of the first family and most especially the child or children of the first family! It puts these children into a position where they will have to make some very difficult choices alone. The only solution to fix this problem is one in which they have no control. The parents and step-parents made decisions while they were small without considering the needs of the children of the first family- decisions that would profoundly affect the future of these children. Only the parents, the step-parents and their children can change things. Most don’t care enough to lift a finger to change anything. They enjoy their scattered broken family and the benefits that they receive at the cost of the first family and most especially the children of the first family! Save the first family!

The key to knowledge

Jesus said in Luke 11:52, “Woe unto you, lawyers! For ye have taken away the key to knowledge: ye entered not in yourselves, and them that were entering in ye hindered.”

“For the kingdom of God cometh not with observation: Neither shall they say , Lo here! or, Lo there! for, behold, the kingdom of God is within you..” (Luke 17:20-21)

Matthew 4:17, “Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.”

Lawyers do not accept responsibility for the things that they do because they are protected by the laws or shall we say, the commandments of men. Lawyers warn others not to repent and accept responsibility for what they have done. Punishment stands in the way of repentance – it generates fear instead of love. Lawyers are great about delivering punishment! They let nothing be forgiven without punishment and even after punishment it still remains unforgiven! They encourage those that they represent to lie instead of telling the truth.

It is through repentance and accepting responsibility that we enter into the kingdom of God. We wash away sin through tears and repentance in order to reconnect with our soul that is within us. We must accept responsibility for what we do! Adultery is not considered a sin according to our lawyers, but all of the others sins that our confused children commit will not go unpunished! Woe to lawyers for what they do to our children!

 

Lawyers make the burdens heavier!

Jesus said in Luke 11:46, “Woe unto you also, ye lawyers! for ye lade men with burdens grievous to be borne, and ye yourselves touch not the burdens with one of your fingers.”

Lawyers completely destroy the first family – that includes the first spouse and their children. It is as though they never were a part of the family of the other spouse. They work the words on paper to eliminate the children of the first family as heirs to their parents’ property. Without lawyers, the step-parents and their children could not get away with what they do. Plus they get paid a large sum of money to make the second family into the first family. This is similar to what surgeons do when they change a male into a female or a female into a male. They take the natural and make it into the unnatural – one with a knife and the other with a pen. Save the first family and the dear children that are so confused by adulterers within their own family that they would reject their own natural gender for a fake one! Stop letting lawyers give everything to the second family! Let Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob be your example! Keep Jesus’s commandments – do not commit adultery and do not use a lawyer to solve your problems!

Is your eye single?

Jesus talked many times about the eyes, the hands, and sometimes even the feet. He understood the body better than any man that lived in his day and more than any man that lives today. But for some reason most men choose to ignore what he said. Could it be that men want to play God on Earth so that they get all of the credit?

Jesus said in Luke 11:34-36, “The light of the body is the eye: therefore when thine eye is single, thy whole body also is full of light; but when thine eye is evil, thy body is full of darkness. Take heed therefore that the light which is in thee be not darkness. If thy whole body therefore be full of light having no part dark, the whole shall be full of light, as when the bright shining of a candle doth give thee light.”

He says for our eye to be single! This is very important because we have two eyes and two different sides to our brain. The optic nerve connects the left eye to the right brain and the right eye to the left brain. The side of the brain that dominates determines how we think and whether our body is full of light or not. If our eye is single, this means that the two sides of our brain work together and as a result, we give off light like a candle. It is when one eye alone dominates, and hence one side of our brain dominates, that we become full of darkness. Most that are caught up in this situation are not aware of what is going on. They are not aware of the other perception that they could be experiencing. This is because their perception of the world shifted when they were too small to understand what was going on. They did not have the opportunity to experience the love of a mother and a father. This is another very important reason why Jesus repeatedly told parents and spouses without children not to commit adultery! Because of adultery; children are abandoned, abused, and killed. Abandoned spouses are forced to look for someone else to replace the one that did not love them enough to stay. There is more about this subject in my book called “The Step-Father’s Step-Son: A Story for Women”. http://www.stepfathersstepson.com