Are you a gatherer or a scatterer?

“He that is not with me is against me: and he that gathereth not with me scattereth.” (Luke 11:23)

Adultery splits a family and scatters the members of the family. Adultery affects every member of a family, but in different ways. It is especially damaging to all of the members of the first family and most especially the child or children of the first family! It puts these children into a position where they will have to make some very difficult choices alone. The only solution to fix this problem is one in which they have no control. The parents and step-parents made decisions while they were small without considering the needs of the children of the first family- decisions that would profoundly affect the future of these children. Only the parents, the step-parents and their children can change things. Most don’t care enough to lift a finger to change anything. They enjoy their scattered broken family and the benefits that they receive at the cost of the first family and most especially the children of the first family! Save the first family!

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I am the author of The Step-Father’s Step-Son. The book is available through Family Matters Publishing at and The book covers subjects such as: adultery, family, relationships, and parenting. The book is written primarily for the first family and the children of the parents of the first family.