A man’s sperm are like little fishes. They go where ever he deposits them. For this reason, he becomes one flesh with every woman with whom he lays. The only way for a man to keep his family united is by keeping his first family first. He must never ever make the mistake of treating a second wife like a first wife. It is possible to do this with man’s laws, but impossible with God’s laws. Love your family enough to bring it together. The first man and the first woman are the only ones that can uplift the first child – the cornerstone of their entire family. This is where the hurts start to disappear and the healing begins. LOVE! Have the courage to unite your broken family. Become a gatherer and not a scatterer.