Ordinary Americans naturally know that their first family is the most important family of all. They naturally love their children and keep their family intact.
According to Patrick Fagan, Ph.D., “Most ordinary Americans do not need to survey social science literature to know that a family life of affection, cohesion, and parental involvement prevents delinquency. In particular, they know almost instinctively that maternal affection, maternal self-confidence, and a father’s esteem for the mother are among the critical elements in raising well-balanced children.”
So if you want healthy children and grandchildren, do not commit adultery against your family or against your future generations! It is just that simple! Thank God that we still have a few intelligent parents! How can we help those that seem to have no natural instinct or intelligence? I have the answer, “Tell them about Jesus’ rules that govern family. They can follow these rules until their intelligence grows enough to understand what love really is. Love isn’t loving the other woman – love is about loving your first family and keeping your family intact!