A few men never abandon their first family. Some men abandon their children immediately after ejaculation, others abandon their children before they are born, others abandon their children during the early years of their life, and still others abandon their families at later dates. When a first wife and her children are abandoned, it is very likely that they were abandoned because of another woman. Does anyone;the other women, our husbands, or our fathers; truly love when they do this? Adultery has nothing to with love! The ones that stay on the narrow path with their first family are the ones that love!