God expects parents to be there for all of their children and not just the children that they have with the person with whom they have committed adultery. Make sure that your first wife is the one that you love and not the one that you lusted after or someone that is going to separate your family. If you are living with either of these two, you are living in the wrong household!
If you lay with her, you stay with her. If you lay with him, you stay with him.
Jesus said, “But they which shall be accounted worthy to obtain that world, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry, nor are given in marriage: Neither can they die any more for they are equal unto the angels; and are the children of God, being the children of the resurrection. (Luke:20:35-36)
Save the first family!