Okay, let’s pretend that you have divorced your first wife and children and have married for a second time. In this scenario, which is more important – the children of your first family or the other woman. If she is more important, then you have married into her family. But if your children from your first family are more important, then you are living with the wrong woman and with the wrong family. Adultery is very confusing not only to adults, but most especially to our children. Do not put your children through this craziness. Keep your first family first always!