All of us get to choose who is most important. Some fathers will choose their second wife over their firstborn son from their first marriage. A mother will choose her second husband over her daughter from her first marriage. The mother in law, a man’s second wife, will be against the woman that married his son from his first marriage. Adultery does all of this and more. Breaking a family apart creates chaos rather than unity within families. The only way to keep a family united is to respect each member of the family and their position within the family. The most important rule is to always keep the first family first! Husbands do not cheat on your wives and wives do not cheat on husbands. Both are sins against the first family! No new members are brought into the family unless it is a joint decision.
Jesus said, “I am come to send fire on the earth; and what will I, if it be already kindled? But I have a baptism to be baptized with; and how am I straightened till it be accomplished! Suppose ye that I am come to give peace on earth? I tell you, Nay; but rather division. For from henceforth there shall be five in one house divided, three against two, and two against three. The father shall be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother against daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in law against the daughter in law, and the daughter in law against the mother in law.” (Luke 12: 49-53)