The despised lost children

Jesus said in Matthew 18:11, “For the Son of man is come to save that which was lost.”

Our children of the first family are the ones that are lost, left behind, and despised when their parents divorce and remarry. The second family replaces them. These children are alone, abandoned, and lost in the confusion and in the adultery. Adults that are considered loners are most likely from this group. They have no real family because everything has been given to another man and to another woman and to their children.  These little children are stripped of everything that was theirs so that their father can play house with another woman and so that another man can marry the father’s divorced wife. Oh, but the cost of adultery is high. In the physical realm, it is the children of the first family that pay the price, but in heaven it is the adulterers that pay the final and the ultimate price – with their souls!


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I am the author of The Step-Father’s Step-Son. The book is available through Family Matters Publishing at and The book covers subjects such as: adultery, family, relationships, and parenting. The book is written primarily for the first family and the children of the parents of the first family.