If someone sues us we are supposed to give them more than what they demanded with a lawyer. Don’t be like them and use a lawyer yourself. These people are the children of men and believe that money and property are the way to right a wrong rather than forgiveness and working things out between them. And as always, they have their reward – a physical reward which is their immediate personal gratification rather than waiting for their reward which is in heaven. A lawsuit has nothing to do with love. Furthermore, it is impossible to govern love or family with “laws” and lawyers. Love is a personal individual responsibility handed down to us by our Father which is in heaven. Just as Jesus had no place to lay his head, so too did my husband let his step-parents and half-brothers and sisters get almost everything. He did not fight for anything with a lawyer. My husband did the right thing.

Matthew 5:40-45, “And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloke also. And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile; go with him twain. Give to him that asketh thee and from him that would borrow of thee turn not away. Ye have heard that it hath been said , Thou shalt love thy neighbor, and hate thine enemy, But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you. That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven; for he maketh the sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the on the just and on the unjust.”

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I am the author of The Step-Father’s Step-Son. The book is available through Family Matters Publishing at and The book covers subjects such as: adultery, family, relationships, and parenting. The book is written primarily for the first family and the children of the parents of the first family.