Author: barbaramcox

I am the author of The Step-Father’s Step-Son. The book is available through Family Matters Publishing at www.stepfathersstepson.com and Amazon.com. The book covers subjects such as: adultery, family, relationships, and parenting. The book is written primarily for the first family and the children of the parents of the first family.

Is there an association between autism and adultery?

John 9:1-5, As Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was blind from his birth. And his disciples asked him, saying, Master, who did sin, this man or his parents, that he was born blind? Jesus answered, “Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him. I must work the works of him that sent me, while it is day: the night cometh, when no man can work. As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world.” – It is unnatural and unhealthy to bring an unrelated adult into a child’s home to sleep in the parent’s bed. First of all, it places the unrelated adult above the child of the first family as heir to everything that once belonged to the child. Second, the unrelated adult will favor their own children with the child’s parent over the children of the parent’s first family. Our children are not given time to develop the soul connection with their mother and their father. These children have difficulty as adults connecting with their own children and then, finally, we begin to have autism and other problems within our family trees. Adultery is a generational curse! As the prevalence of adultery increases so too is autism! Our children need that soul connection – love – for brain development. We are denying the children and grandchildren of the first family the love that God reserved for them in order to give everything to the children of the adulterers and adulteresses! Save the first family!

Wise or foolish man?

Jesus said in Matthew 7: 24, 26, “Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock…And everyone that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon sand.” Is your house built upon adultery or is it built upon the will of Jesus’ Father which is in heaven? (Matthew 7: 21)

 

Stress and fear

Jesus said in Matthew 6:34, “Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day it is the evil thereof.”  It is a waste of time to worry about tomorrow because most of the things that we worry about never happen the way that we imagined them. A life of faith frees us from that fear and worry. Jesus used his life as an example of how we should live our lives.

Jesus said do not worry

Jesus said in Matthew 6:25, “Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on, Is not the life more than meat, and the body more than raiment?” Jesus is telling us to live life fully outside our body. When we walk by faith, we are living outside our body. It is all about our perception. If we focus on food and eating healthy like we are told everyday, all we will end up doing is thinking about food rather than living. Grow your own garden and eat the food that you grow.  Don’t judge a book by its cover or a person by what they wear. Look deeper – look into their soul. Set your soul free. Love!

Strait Gate and Whole Families

Many may wonder about the importance of the first family, but I think that Jesus referred to it in Matthew 7: 13-14. He said, “Enter ye in at the strait gate; for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.” In Matthew 7:21 he also said, “Not every one that saith unto me Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.” Fathers should love all of their children – not just the children that are born of the woman with whom they currently reside. Our fathers should love their children by keeping their generations perfect. This one rule permits the children of the first family to hold their natural position within the family unit.