Author: barbaramcox

I am the author of The Step-Father’s Step-Son. The book is available through Family Matters Publishing at www.stepfathersstepson.com and Amazon.com. The book covers subjects such as: adultery, family, relationships, and parenting. The book is written primarily for the first family and the children of the parents of the first family.

Men and their “wife-in-law”

Terah, Abraham’s father, lived with his “wife-in-law” and not his wife. Abraham left the land of his father at God’s request and never returned. Men like Terah, have no need for sons because they foolishly give everything to another woman by marrying her and moving in with her. Jesus said that Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob were in heaven – Jesus never mentioned Terah, Abraham’s father. Save the first family!

Is your house built upon sand?

It gets complicated when a man divorces his wife and marries another woman. In most cases this marriage will be his “wife-in-law’s” first marriage and she will most likely rule over him. She and her children with this man will readily use lawyers to solve their problems because their “family” and their parent’s “marriage” are built upon sand (laws).

Jesus said in Matthew 7: 24, 26, “Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock…And everyone that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon sand.” Is your house (family) built upon “laws” or is it built upon the will of Jesus’ Father which is in heaven -God? (Matthew 7: 21)

Decisions…decisions

Is the other woman, the wife-in-law, more important than a man’s children with his first wife?  Lawyers are the prop that make the unnatural appear to be natural.

Save the first family!

 

What must be done

This is what Jacob said to Judah before he died. Genesis 49:10,”The sceptre shall not depart from Judah, nor a lawgiver from between his feet, until Shiloh come; and unto him shall the gathering of the people be.” Genesis 49:11, “Binding his foal unto the vine, and his ass’s colt unto the choice vine; he washed his garments in wine, and his clothes in the blood of grapes.”

A strong military and lawyers are what has kept this country strong and will keep it strong until the End (Shiloh). Unfortunately, it is impossible to govern love or family with “laws”, so our lawyers are only props that keep us standing. The gathering of the people will be the gathering of God’s family as he has wanted it since the beginning. God’s family plan is for a united family and not a broken family. The vine is his first wife and since many of our men have gone on and moved in with a second wife, their job is to bring their small children with their second wife to their first wife, who is the “vine”. The ass’s colt, his children with his first wife, will be lifted up by both father and mother, to the “choice vine” as the cornerstone of the natural family. The man is an “ass” because he has placed a heavy load to bear upon his children with his first wife by abandoning his first family. This man has been busy trying to make the unnatural into the natural. As a result of his misconduct, our sons and daughters have turned to alcohol and drugs to help them deal with their father’s abandonment. The byproduct of the alcohol, drugs, and the blood spilled is in our water which we use to clean our clothes and try to clean our bodies that are dirty with “sin” because of what we have done to our families and especially our children of the first family. #Save the first family!

 

Family members are not disposable!

 

The first family is sanctioned by God himself. The second family is based upon “law”. Following the divorce and break-up of the first family, the second wife becomes a “wife-in-law”. In early family law, Sarah, who was Abraham’s half-sister, was referred to as their father’s “daughter-in-law” rather than “daughter”; while Abraham, Sarah’s half-brother, was referred to as his “son” (Genesis 11: 31, 20:12). In our current legal system, we have similar, but different terminology. Now “daughter-in-law” refers to our son’s wife and not a half-sister with his father’s second “wife”, “son-in-law” refers to our daughter’s husband, “mother-in-law”, and “father-in-law”. Each of these first family members is replaceable under “legal family law”. This is the reason “in-law” is used – to remind us that this family is based upon “law” and can be broken with “law”. None of these titles mean anything under God’s plan because all are permanent members of the family and they should be referred to as, “our son’s wife”, “our daughter’s husband”, “our son’s or daughter’s mother”, and “our son’s or daughter’s father”. Under God’s plan, it is the second family that can be removed from the family if their members try to break up the first family! Jesus said to let no one separate the first family. Hagar is our example of a second wife and Ishmael was a son that wanted to replace the firstborn son of the first family, Isaac. (Genesis 16:3, 21:9-10, 25:5) #Save the first family!