Author: barbaramcox

I am the author of The Step-Father’s Step-Son. The book is available through Family Matters Publishing at www.stepfathersstepson.com and Amazon.com. The book covers subjects such as: adultery, family, relationships, and parenting. The book is written primarily for the first family and the children of the parents of the first family.

Do you feed your children?

Where are the fathers of the aborted, abandoned, and abused children of the world? Do our fathers believe that the other woman and her children are more important than the children of their first family? Save the first family!

Jesus said, “If a son ask bread of any of you that is a father, will he give him a stone? Or if he ask a fish, will he for a fish, give him a serpent? Or if he shall ask an egg, will he offer him a scorpion? If ye then being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children: how much more shall your Heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?” (Luke 11:10-13)

Can you imagine…

How could it possibly be that a man could father a child and still walk away from that child? How is it, that a woman could be so unloving towards a family that she would take a man away from an existing family so that she could have a spouse’s partner or a child’s parent for herself? How is it that a man would marry a divorced woman and become her primary heir when she already has a child that is her heir? Many think that all of this as love, but none of it has anything to do with love. This describes adultery and selfishness!

Jesus said in Matthew 10:40, “He that receiveth you receiveth me, and he that receiveth me, receiveth him that sent me.”

Who do you trust – lawyers or God?

Fathers and mothers, lift up the children of your first family! This ex-wife or this ex-husband and these children are the ones that are the beginning of your family. According to God’s law, God’s families are forever! Even Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob are examples of a line of men that kept God’s commandment to keep their generations perfect. Don’t make the mistake of trusting in lawyers to break your family with laws unless you trust in lawyers as your God. Adultery  requires apology and correction, but how many have the courage to take that step? This one step is so important that our salvation depends upon it. Save your first family!

According to Matthew, Jesus said, “And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.”(Matthew 10:38)

Adultery will destroy a nation!

A nations strength is in its families – not in broken homes with children living with a live in boyfriend, a live in girlfriend, or step-parents and their children. The first family must be first and not last! It won’t work any other way.

Jesus said, “Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation; and a house divided against itself falleth!” (Luke 11:17)

Who do you love most – Jesus or your parents?

Jesus said in Matthew 10:37, “He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.”

It doesn’t matter if you are born into the first family or the second family, this rule still applies – but in different ways. We can either accept our parents’ adultery as normal or we can tell them about what Jesus said. Also, parents must not love the children of their second family more than their children of the first family. If they do, they will eliminate their first wife or first husband and the children of their first family from their lives. This creates a broken house and broken family. This is not love!

“But I say unto you, that whosoever shall put away his wife saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.” (Matthew 5:32)

If you love Jesus, you will keep the commandments! Save the first family!