Author: barbaramcox

I am the author of The Step-Father’s Step-Son. The book is available through Family Matters Publishing at www.stepfathersstepson.com and Amazon.com. The book covers subjects such as: adultery, family, relationships, and parenting. The book is written primarily for the first family and the children of the parents of the first family.

The Jews Want Us to Believe that They Are the Only Victims…

Hitler’s father was the abandoned son of a young Jewish man. His grandmother worked in this Jewish household as a maid. When she got pregnant with the young man’s child, they kicked her out of the house. This mother had to give her son her last name because she and this young man were not “married”. Hitler’s father was homeless at times and very poor, but most importantly, he was from a broken home – one that only respected family members that were a “legal” part of the family. Even though they did not want Hitler’s father and grandmother, he still had a grandmother, a grandfather, a father, and other family members that did not consider him to be members of their “legal” family. Hitler’s father was the firstborn son of a man who abandoned him for a second woman and her children. This mentally ill family created a mentally ill son and grandson. I wonder just how many of our fathers still, for the same reasons…either divorce or were never married to – abandon their first wife and firstborn  children for a second woman and her children? Every child has a father! Don’t let pieces of paper and a lawyer break up your family! Save your first family!

Turn Your Eyes Back to Your Children!

According to Pat Fagan, Ph.D., director of the Marriage and Religion Institute, “We have never faced anything like this in human history,” Fagan said of the high numbers of children growing up in broken homes. “The foundational relationship of marriage has quite an impact on the wellbeing of children, and on the welfare of both the states and the nation. Sad to say, our family culture today is primarily a culture of rejection between parents. Most American mothers and fathers cannot stand each other enough to raise the children they brought into existence.”

Our Poor Children

From heritage.org, “How Broken Families Rob Children of their Chances for Future Prosperity by Patrick Fagan, Ph.D.”: ” Simply put, whether or not a child’s parents are married and stay married has a massive affect on his or her future prosperity and that of the next generation. Unfortunately, the growth in the number of children born into broken families in America -from 12 for every 100 born in 1950 to 58 for every 100 born in 1992 – has become a seemingly unbreakable cycle that the federal government not only continues to ignore, but even promotes through some of its policies.”

The government not only contributes to this problem, but so do our pastors by what they teach and practice. Our lawyers enable the second wife or the second husband to become primary heirs above the children of the first family. The step-parents and their children will inherit everything or control every thing provided the step-parents can outlive the child’s parents. Do not reward adulterers by giving them and their children everything that belongs to the first family! Save the first family!

Is A Step-Parent A Blessing to A Family?

According to the American Society for the Positive Care of Children (americanspcc.org), the answer is, “No, the arrival of a step-parent or ‘partner’ is far more likely to mean that the child’s home, which should be their place of refuge becomes a place seething with pent up jealousies, anger, and resentment. Sadly, all too often, mother and daughter, father and son are set against one another by a parent’s new spouse.”

Jesus said, “Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I am come not to send peace, but a sword. For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother,  and the daughter in law against her mother in law. And a man’s foes shall be they of his own household. He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.” (Matthew 10:34-38)

We all get to choose who it is that we follow. If you choose to honor your adulterous parents or adulterous children, then you cannot follow Jesus. It is not a true sword that Jesus was talking about, but instead the sword of truth. Do not embrace, endorse, or accept adulterous relationships as family, because they are anything but family! Save the first family!

 

Frances Child’s Opinion on Step-Parents

As published in dailymail.co.uk and spoken by Frances Child’s, “It’s heresy to say it, but having a step-parent can wreck a child’s life.”

All too often our children are forced to live with their mother and a step-father or with their father and a step-mother. Both are broken homes and both are parts of a broken family. Protect your children. Do not commit adultery!