Author: barbaramcox

I am the author of The Step-Father’s Step-Son. The book is available through Family Matters Publishing at www.stepfathersstepson.com and Amazon.com. The book covers subjects such as: adultery, family, relationships, and parenting. The book is written primarily for the first family and the children of the parents of the first family.

Order or Chaos?

Henry Adams said, “Chaos was the law of nature; order the dream of man.”

Chaos and order apply to our families too. God had his own plan for order within his families, but many men and women failed to listen. And when our fathers, mothers, other women, and other men do not respect God’s family, chaos is the result. We blame the children for the chaos that adultery creates. It is time that “adults” start accepting responsibility for their actions against the first family! Adultery is a sin!

Our Fallen Fathers

“A fallen lighthouse is more dangerous than a reef.” As spoken by Navjot Singh Sidhu.

Our fathers are like lighthouses to their children, and most especially their sons, until another woman selfishly takes them away. Our fallen and broken fathers will devote the rest of their life caring for the other woman’s children while neglecting the rest of his family – his most important first family.

Step-Mothers and Step-Fathers Do Not Exist in the Real World!

Only in broken families where adultery is involved will you find step-mothers and step-fathers. In God’s world, there is no such thing! Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob are our examples of men that kept their first family first and men that kept their second family last. For this reason, these men are alive today in Heaven! Is your second family more important to you than your first family? If it is, you have made a very big mistake! Do not commit adultery!

Are you going to let your children become a statistic?

According to the Pew Research Center, in 2014, only forty-two percent (42%) of children lived with both of their parents in their first marriage. Over one-fourth (26%), lived in families where both parents had committed adultery by remarrying. Fifteen percent (15%) of our children were living with either their mother or their father as a single parent. (The study did not investigate where the other parent was living or if they had remarried and committed adultery.) Five percent of our children had been abandoned by both parents. This study indicates that at least fifty-eight percent (58%) of our children are born into families where their parents have committed adultery against them! Save the first family!

Lost Children

Are you the lost children of a man that divorced his wife to marry your mother?
Are you the lost children of a man that married a divorced woman with children?

Are you the lost children that replaced the children of the first family? If you are, your position in the family is second and not first!