Author: barbaramcox

I am the author of The Step-Father’s Step-Son. The book is available through Family Matters Publishing at www.stepfathersstepson.com and Amazon.com. The book covers subjects such as: adultery, family, relationships, and parenting. The book is written primarily for the first family and the children of the parents of the first family.

One Parent is Better than a Step-Parent and a Parent!

According to livestrong.com, “Multiple studies have demonstrated that children fare best in households with both biological parents, but bringing up your child in a two-parent home is not always possible. A variety of circumstances result in single parenting, including: death of a parent, military service for one parent, an incarcerated father or mother, and divorce. Single parenthood affects children, but not all of the effects are negative.”

Parents can separate, but must never marry again. This is for the protection of the first family. Save the first family!

Second wives are not worth what they cost!

Most men will never witness the sacrifices that must be made so that they can abandon their first family for another woman. Unfortunately, these sacrifices are a requirement for a man to prove his love for his second wife. In many countries, the system is set up so that a man can only have one wife at a time. This means that family members must be cast aside to make room for the new woman. But the greatest gift that a man can give to his second wife is the act of moving in and living with her. When this happens, she can know with confidence that she was finally successful in her goal to separate him from his family. Now she can start her family at his expense and his first family’s expense! (Just a reminder: In God’s family plan the first family is always first – there is no other way to keep the family united.)

So you want the perfect husband, the perfect son,…?

Men and women cheat the next generation when they commit adultery. Not only do family property and resources go to the second family, but much of the parents’ lives are devoted to raising the second family. And so, where adultery is concerned, the second family is more important to adulterers than their first family. Furthermore, our sons would be better husbands, fathers, and citizens if their fathers loved them enough to be there for them instead of the other woman. Save the first family!

A Word of Warning!

Birth control pills and devices do not prevent conception. They prevent full implantation of the placenta. Abortion is more prevalent than actual statistics reveal. For more information on this subject go to a sight called “Pharmacists for Life” at http://www.pfli.org. Save the first family!

Children need their fathers!

Researcher Virginia Knox found that “children with single mothers who have contact and emotional support from their children’s fathers tend to do better in school than children that have no contact with their fathers.” Go to http://www.livestrong.com for more information.

Fathers need to be available for their wife and their children. They do not need the distraction of living with another woman. Put your first family first and not last!