Author: barbaramcox

One of the most selfish things that a mother or a father can do is to leave their family for someone else.

One of the most selfish things that someone else can do is to break up a family.

Adults must learn to put themselves last and to bless the next generation. Our children need their mother and father! Our children come first!

Protect your children! Do not let adults take advantage of your children! Keep adulterers away from your children and your family.

I once had a male doctor tell me that babies can feel no pain. But I know and most mothers know that babies and children can and do feel pain.

Many people believe that adultery does not affect children. Jesus believed that it does affect children and so do I.

Many of these confused children growing up among adulterers, will end up in prison as adults. Does anyone care that adultery is the actual cause? Does anyone care enough to stop committing adultery against children and their family?

Do not give any other woman the opportunity to separate your children and grandchildren from your family! If she encourages you to do such a thing, kick her out like Abraham supported Hagar’s banishment from his family. Do not deny children any of their inheritance so that a second wife can have something that does not belong to her.

When a second wife returns to her natural position within the family as a second wife, she is still a member of the family. This is not scary.

This is in contrast to what happens when a second wife replaces a first wife. The first family must be eliminated to make room for her.

It is almost impossible to keep a family united by putting the second family before the first family. The second wife will want the first wife removed. The children of the second family will desire to replace a man’s first family. Men must be very careful about the decisions that they make. A second wife can and will destroy a man’s family!

in many cases, the first person to take advantage of a man is his second wife. Jacob worked seven years for Rachel and then Leah cheated her way into his family. Jacob stood his ground with Leah and kept her last.

Do not commit adultery!

We use abortion and birth control to keep children from being born.

We abandon many children for another man or woman.

We kill and abuse others.

In actuality, I wonder how many children of the first family actually survive? My guess is few.

The children of the first family are under attack – they are a burden for adulterers.

We all have two fathers – God, the Father of our soul,  and our earthly father, the father of our body. The one with the physical form seems to believe that he he can do whatever he pleases with God’s family. He is a son of God if he keeps God’s commandments regarding family. Do not commit adultery!